Most people want to have someone close to me to whom I can open the book of my life. Someone who understands me, respects my feelings, these days there are many Facebook friends, but not true friends. Everyone wants intimacy, but everyone is afraid to be intimate, very shy.
There is a big wall between two people. But why so much hesitation? Why such a barrier? It's true, everyone wants the warmth of intimacy, but when it comes to giving to others, instead of taking a step forward, we turn back because we fear intimacy. This intimacy feels scary because it brings the stranger closer. Just loving someone does not make one intimate, to make someone our own we have to break down all our defenses and only then such intimacy is possible.
Along with this, we are also afraid that if the security shield is broken, unknown strangers will take advantage of your weakness! Somewhere it is not betrayed! It is this suspicion that does not allow people to come closer to each other. People spend their lives with each other, but still remain strangers. One thing we should remember is that realizing the hidden value in human relationships depends on how it is expressed and how passionate it is.
You see, even in the address of a person who is intimate, male love emerges, a feeling of incomparable happiness overflows in his tone. A person who wants to be intimate will need to expect the other person to break down their defenses, to become emotional, to come out of the mask, to come out as they really are.
It is true that people living simple, ordinary lives have no fear of intimacy. Intimacy basically means the general opening of our whole heart, welcoming the other person into your heart, but this is possible only when you have a heart and only pure thoughts in that heart. Intimacy is about letting the feeling of true feelings flow to each other's soul.
We all know that the other person immediately recognizes the way you address. No matter how much we pretend, the tone of intimacy that is heard in the speech is not found in the speech of hypocrites. So the opportunity to experience the true joy of being an intimate is not to be missed.
